Stay in touch...with everybody!

Hello Bros,

one important thing in an awesome life is networking...I know, some might say that they hate it and that they wanna be promoted because of their expertise or their actions...the same people want others to help them just because they're so friendly...and last but not least, some wanna hook up as often as possible without having a good network of friends who may help them (e.g. as wingmen or just as "connectors").

I just want to tell you one thing: Forget it!

The fastest way in life is by letting others help you to get what you want.
By "using" others you can get an awesome life at ease.
The term "using" shouldn't be negative...there is a fictitius institution called "The bank of favors"... you take from others and you give to others without a direct benefit for the other party...it could give you a credit sometimes, but in the end you should always try to bring it to a balanced level (otherwise it could be closed for you when you hardly need it).

It's not a shame if you let other people help you...in the end you'll be the one with a happier life and lots of friends/ONS/money/power.

Think about how often you recognized that someone achieved a goal with the help of someone else...is he less proud?...is he less happy?...is he less satisfied?
What would be if he didn't use the help of others? How would you feel if you fail???
You can live in a cheap one-room-apartement with artificial light and hook up with your hand every night by watching the only porno you own or you could live in playboy mansion and have sex with hot chicks everyday just because this old man who lives there helped you....which option will you choose?
Use your contacts and let them use you too!

Some of you might think now that they don't have contacts that could help them by simplify their lifes...now think back in time...imagine everybody you met would still be in touch with you...do you really think not even one of all those people could help you in any part of your life???...it's never too late to get back in touch with most of them (especially today with XING or facebook)...and you definitely should start to stay in touch with everyone you know right now (even with people who look like they could never help you...maybe you can help them...and maybe three years later the bro of their father could help you...you never know)...that's how you prepare your awesome life in the future!

Now here is a technique for staying in touch without wasting too much time:
Imagine you have 500 contacts right now (no matter from where they are)

• You see 40 of them regulary (at least once a week) at work - they are hot and it needs almost no additional effort to hold them hot
• 10 of them are good friends - hot like the previous
• 50 are friends you meet at least once a month (at parties, weddings, bowling etc.) - at least warm so that it needs just a few words at a party to keep in touch
  
• 50 are family members (your own, of your girlfriend, from your best bros, from the husband of your sister) - warm forever (except they hate you or you break up with the girl etc. then they become totally lost)

--> leads to 350 cold leads (ex-collegues, friends from the high school, college, your former hobby basketball team etc.)
If you contact just two of them per day (make a list of them so that you could see who you already have contacted) you can contact everyone twice a year which is enough for staying in their mind. If it comes to the point someone of your cold contacts could be more interesting for you (new Job, new boobs ;-), no lover--> remember the rebound guy) make him/her a hot one by date her or go for a drink in a bar with him to chat and try to let them help you.

Some of your contacts might get lost over the time (happens usually after you hook up with her..or his wife) and some new will be added...if you've to many contacts you can seperate the cold ones in "contact twice/year", "contact once/year", "contact every 18 months"........depending on how good/worthy they are.

You see it's easy and doesn't waste a lot of time. Try it out and harvest the big fruits of your small action.

This should be enough stuff for today.

Stay awesome...with everyone you know!

Yours,

Broda

Being crazy and creative leads to the next higher level of awesome!

Hello bros,

in order to reach higher levels of awesomness you need to think and act different compared to the majority of human beings. You don't have to do everything according to the book...in fact you should try to avoid it whenever possible (except if you work in a factory and are working right now...could get you in trouble there ;-).

If you wanna be the one of whom everybody thinks: "I wanna be as awesome as this guy!" you have to catch attention and surprise people by acting creative and a bit crazy (of course in a positive way...not like a serial killer..).

Try it out...it works almost everywhere...at work (your supervisor should see that you aren't one out of twenty-one employees in his area but that you are different/better so that you'll be the first when it comes to a promotion decision), in a bar (I guess you know why), on a sports court (you beat your opponent by doing moves he doesn't expect) and elsewhere.

You know what comes next right? We take a closer look on the bar example...
Here you can see how to pick up a girls number with the help of a creative mind and some wingmen...nice ;-)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r1C0jDdlsaw

Of course you can lay chicks successful without acting as extrordinary as Barney did in this video but think about the fun all your friends will have...and I bet she will never forget this too...

It's all about not being one out of many but being Mr. Awesome himself.

This should make you think about this topic...I guess after a short time you'll have your own ideas how to stand out in a crowd and get the girls, the promotion you deserve (because, if you read my blog you already are awesome all the time) and reach all your goals.

Stay awesome...in a creative way!

Yours,

Broda

The awesomness of wingmen!

Hello bros,

this time we're going to talk about a common tool in being successful....the wingman (wingwomen are fine too).
Of course you can be totally awesome without ever use a wingman, but there are three good reasons for using one:
it makes things much...

1. easier
2. faster
3. and last but not least...funnier (you can share stories with your friends)

Some of you might not know what a "wingman" is, so here's a short explanation:
A wingman is a person who helps you to reach your goals by assisting you or who plays different roles to place you in the right light.
In fact it's like a personal marketing assistant.

You can take advantage of wingmen in almost every situation...and that's what many people do, e.g. good cop-bad cop; pilots in war; salesmen who use the manager close (to put some more pressure on the client); bros who wanna get laid (my favourite one ;-); applicants (with their reference people) to convince future employers.

Let's take a closer look on my favourite one....
We used it almost every party we went to back in my years at the university...that was fun ;-))
You can decide who hard you wanna involve your wingman in the process.
This short scene frome HIMYM illustrates how to break the ice with the help of a wingman:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYbqLEwdXv8

Another possible way is to involve him by supporting your stories (or let him tell stories about you)...no matter if they are true or just crazy stuff/lies (at this you need a very spontaneously one or you have to arrange a story before you go to a bar...otherwise it could lead to bad surprises ;-)
Sometimes you need a wingman or better a wingwoman to get rid of your conquest (she should come to your apartment in the morning pretending she's your fiancé).

So as you probably could recognize trying to use a wingman could be fun and lead to sex...this point should convince you even if it were the only one ;-)
It also could help you with problem solving, getting promoted, feeling better or just to have a bit more fun.

Next time when you go out with friends (or do sth. else like dealing with clients) use them as your wingmen...but never forget to return the favor...this will make things so much easier and faster.

btw sometimes you can work with distance wingmen by mobile (or with imaginery ones if you wanne get out of a situation)

Stay awesome...wingman-style!

Yours,

Broda