Hello Bros,
one important thing in an awesome life is networking...I know, some might say that they hate it and that they wanna be promoted because of their expertise or their actions...the same people want others to help them just because they're so friendly...and last but not least, some wanna hook up as often as possible without having a good network of friends who may help them (e.g. as wingmen or just as "connectors").
one important thing in an awesome life is networking...I know, some might say that they hate it and that they wanna be promoted because of their expertise or their actions...the same people want others to help them just because they're so friendly...and last but not least, some wanna hook up as often as possible without having a good network of friends who may help them (e.g. as wingmen or just as "connectors").
I just want to tell you one thing: Forget it!
The fastest way in life is by letting others help you to get what you want.
By "using" others you can get an awesome life at ease.
The term "using" shouldn't be negative...there is a fictitius institution called "The bank of favors"... you take from others and you give to others without a direct benefit for the other party...it could give you a credit sometimes, but in the end you should always try to bring it to a balanced level (otherwise it could be closed for you when you hardly need it).
It's not a shame if you let other people help you...in the end you'll be the one with a happier life and lots of friends/ONS/money/power.
Think about how often you recognized that someone achieved a goal with the help of someone else...is he less proud?...is he less happy?...is he less satisfied?
What would be if he didn't use the help of others? How would you feel if you fail???
You can live in a cheap one-room-apartement with artificial light and hook up with your hand every night by watching the only porno you own or you could live in playboy mansion and have sex with hot chicks everyday just because this old man who lives there helped you....which option will you choose?
Use your contacts and let them use you too!
Some of you might think now that they don't have contacts that could help them by simplify their lifes...now think back in time...imagine everybody you met would still be in touch with you...do you really think not even one of all those people could help you in any part of your life???...it's never too late to get back in touch with most of them (especially today with XING or facebook)...and you definitely should start to stay in touch with everyone you know right now (even with people who look like they could never help you...maybe you can help them...and maybe three years later the bro of their father could help you...you never know)...that's how you prepare your awesome life in the future!
Now here is a technique for staying in touch without wasting too much time:
Imagine you have 500 contacts right now (no matter from where they are)
If you contact just two of them per day (make a list of them so that you could see who you already have contacted) you can contact everyone twice a year which is enough for staying in their mind. If it comes to the point someone of your cold contacts could be more interesting for you (new Job, new boobs ;-), no lover--> remember the rebound guy) make him/her a hot one by date her or go for a drink in a bar with him to chat and try to let them help you.
Some of your contacts might get lost over the time (happens usually after you hook up with her..or his wife) and some new will be added...if you've to many contacts you can seperate the cold ones in "contact twice/year", "contact once/year", "contact every 18 months"........depending on how good/worthy they are.
You see it's easy and doesn't waste a lot of time. Try it out and harvest the big fruits of your small action.
This should be enough stuff for today.
Stay awesome...with everyone you know!
Yours,
Broda
The fastest way in life is by letting others help you to get what you want.
By "using" others you can get an awesome life at ease.
The term "using" shouldn't be negative...there is a fictitius institution called "The bank of favors"... you take from others and you give to others without a direct benefit for the other party...it could give you a credit sometimes, but in the end you should always try to bring it to a balanced level (otherwise it could be closed for you when you hardly need it).
It's not a shame if you let other people help you...in the end you'll be the one with a happier life and lots of friends/ONS/money/power.
Think about how often you recognized that someone achieved a goal with the help of someone else...is he less proud?...is he less happy?...is he less satisfied?
What would be if he didn't use the help of others? How would you feel if you fail???
You can live in a cheap one-room-apartement with artificial light and hook up with your hand every night by watching the only porno you own or you could live in playboy mansion and have sex with hot chicks everyday just because this old man who lives there helped you....which option will you choose?
Use your contacts and let them use you too!
Some of you might think now that they don't have contacts that could help them by simplify their lifes...now think back in time...imagine everybody you met would still be in touch with you...do you really think not even one of all those people could help you in any part of your life???...it's never too late to get back in touch with most of them (especially today with XING or facebook)...and you definitely should start to stay in touch with everyone you know right now (even with people who look like they could never help you...maybe you can help them...and maybe three years later the bro of their father could help you...you never know)...that's how you prepare your awesome life in the future!
Now here is a technique for staying in touch without wasting too much time:
Imagine you have 500 contacts right now (no matter from where they are)
- You see 40 of them regulary (at least once a week) at work - they are hot and it needs almost no additional effort to hold them hot
- 10 of them are good friends - hot like the previous
- 50 are friends you meet at least once a month (at parties, weddings, bowling etc.) - at least warm so that it needs just a few words at a party to keep in touch
- 50 are family members (your own, of your girlfriend, from your best bros, from the husband of your sister) - warm forever (except they hate you or you break up with the girl etc. then they become totally lost)
If you contact just two of them per day (make a list of them so that you could see who you already have contacted) you can contact everyone twice a year which is enough for staying in their mind. If it comes to the point someone of your cold contacts could be more interesting for you (new Job, new boobs ;-), no lover--> remember the rebound guy) make him/her a hot one by date her or go for a drink in a bar with him to chat and try to let them help you.
Some of your contacts might get lost over the time (happens usually after you hook up with her..or his wife) and some new will be added...if you've to many contacts you can seperate the cold ones in "contact twice/year", "contact once/year", "contact every 18 months"........depending on how good/worthy they are.
You see it's easy and doesn't waste a lot of time. Try it out and harvest the big fruits of your small action.
This should be enough stuff for today.
Stay awesome...with everyone you know!
Yours,
Broda
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