Hey bros,
I know there are some crappy studies and some dump people who always say that you shouldn't think positive all the time because it gives you an unrealistic view on your life...but what the fuck should you do instead? Should you take place in the vicious circle of negative thoughts?
Ok it must not end in the worst case depression scenario but why should you take this risk?
Even if it might be unrealistic sometimes isn't it better to, at least, have a chance for getting a chick or a promotion...If you don't think positive you will end up in a dead-end-position...One who don't think positive because he tries to be realistic all the time will always have a smaller chance to reach the realistic goals, but won't have any chance to reach something above of which he always thought that it won't be realistic.
So always follow your dreams, even if they might be a little too high from your present point of view. In my opinion everybody who tries hard enough and have enough stamina can reach almost everything. Keep thinking positive and you get what you want...maybe not at once but mostly on time.
Thinking positive is hard sometimes (especially when nothing works out for you), but if you stand strong and keep your way of thinking you'll always be in a better mood and you'll end up reaching what you want...awesome hotties included ;-)
If you do what I recommend to you you are Mr. Positive in a short while and all people around you are going to recognize this...they try to be around you to gain a bit of your charisma and you feel like the awesomest guy ever!!!
Stay awesome...Mr. "Positive-Thinker"!
Yours,
Broda
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Why people don't get awesome!
Hello again bros,
Here's another interesting post I found during my research about how to be awesome. In fact this is a list why many people fail to be awesome sometimes. If you adopt everything from my previous posts you might not get in one of the traps which are descripte in the following article. Anyway it's good to read this to avoid the mistakes that have been written about.
P.S.: I added an info after every point (italic) where you can find more about this topic in my blog.
Article by Josh:
Who says business and pleasure can’t co-exist? It is quite interesting to see that business and getting laid have a lot in common. One of the most primitive needs we have as human beings is being able to reproduce and pass the seed on to future generations. In other words, survival and reproduction. The whole animal kingdom does it. We have to reproduce to survive as a race. In business we must expand and “marry” companies together, to survive in the competitive markets.
We sit at home wondering why life is not going the way we want to. We engage in self-doubt and think negatively of our situation and blame everyone else except ourselves. These are the top 7 reasons why you’re not getting laid or starting a business.
If you want to improve your dating life make sure to check out this website.
Top 7 Reasons Why You’re Not Getting Laid Or Starting A Business
1. Over-thinking.
You over-think everything. You ask too many questions in your head. Here are a few examples of what goes on in your head: What will happen if I ask him/her out? He/She probably won’t like me. What does he/she think of me? I wonder if he/she has a boyfriend/girlfriend? Gahhh. Yes, “gahhh,” is part of what goes on in your head. The same goes for business. When you start a business you think about similar questions. You ask yourself the “what if” questions and it discourages you. It scatters your brain and you are afraid to do anything about it. Suck it up and just do it.
Remember the post "The Key of being awesome"
2. Not going out.
You can’t expect a special fairy to sprinkle magical dust and bring women/men to you while you sit on your ass. It doesn’t matter where you go so long as there are some people present. It could be a bar or club, lounge, book store, grocery store, networking event, speed dating event, restaurant, friends house, the places are endless. Just get out there! This goes the same for business. Good companies don’t form themselves. The successful companies have employees and very rarely would you find a 1 man/woman operation. Getting out there and meeting professionals is essential to growing your brand and growing your business. If you have a blog/website you have to market it. You have to tell people or there will be no traffic and your blog or website will fold. Once again, it’s not just going to drop into your lap. It just doesn’t work that way. Get out there!
* Engage in conversation with a stranger. If you are scared to talk to men/women try talking to sales people at a clothing store. They are there to talk to you. This will help you practice talking to a random person.
* You never know who you are going to meet. By talking to random people you can never know who you will meet or who they will introduce you to. So start up a conversation! It’s fun.
Remember the posts "Be the Yes Man & The magic moment theory...awesome style"
3. Lack of confidence.
If you lack in confidence, you lack the fundamentals of getting laid or starting a business. If you look like you don’t care about yourself, no one will care about you. Take care of yourself by showering, smelling good and dressing well everyday. It will not only make you feel better, you will look better. If you look and feel better, you will gain more confidence. You never know what situation you will be in throughout the day. By looking good at every moment, you prepare for what could happen throughout the day. Here are 3 things that you could do to boost your confidence.
* Dress and smell good. Go buy yourself some new clothes. If you don’t know where to start, take a look a look at lifestyle magazines like GQ or Men’s Health and for women, Cosmo and Women’s Health. Get some fresh ideas on how you want to look and try and replicate it. Smelling good also boost confidence. If you get noticed by smelling good not only does it boost your moral, it boosts your confidence as well. Men and women equally love compliments, so give them, but not too often! (you would just sound insincere if you keep doing it)
* Get a haircut. Try something new. Sometimes we forget that we have had the same hairstyle for so long. Look at a magazines and see what could work for you. See if your barber or a salon can replicate it.
* Workout. Go hit the weights, run, walk your dog, etc. Even if its for a short time, take some time out of the day to take care of yourself.
In the next posts there will be an article about How to get an awesome body. So keep on reading my blog!
4. Can’t pull the trigger.
You have prepared your business plan, or your ready to ask the girl/guy of your dreams out on a date, and yet, you can’t do it. You just won’t pull the trigger. Self-doubt clouds your mind and you go back to 1st reason on why you’re not starting a business or getting laid. You over think it and say it will never happen. Stay positive and pull the trigger.
Remember the posts "Most awesome stuff happens beyond the comfort zone & Try to be awesome all the time"
5. Fear of rejection.
You fear the unknown and you won’t take a risk. You have to ask yourself, “what is the worst that could happen?” You have a 50/50 chance of the person saying yes or no. I like those chances. If you get rejected, move along and don’t take it too seriously. There are plenty of fish in the sea. With business, we fear rejection as well. You don’t want to go to the bank to ask for a loan application because you think you’re going to get denied. When you denied for job offers or a business loan you immediately discount yourself and say “maybe it’s never meant to be.” After you get rejected a couple of times, you will understand that it really isn’t that bad after all. My father always told me to try to get a “yes” answer from everything you do, and if you don’t get that answer, keep trying until you do.You have to fight the fear and face it. Get rejected, who cares! Move on, learn, and get over it.
Remember the posts "Most awesome stuff happens beyond the comfort zone & The awesome guy named Thomas Edison"
6. You’re Lazy.
When you are lazy, nothing in life will ever get accomplished. You have focus on what you want and go after it proactively. This encompasses almost all the traits of why you’re not getting laid or starting a business. You won’t take the time and effort to go through the learning processes. You won’t start because you feel like you won’t succeed. You put things off and wait till the last minute and you wonder why you aren’t succeeding.
Remember the posts "Being crazy and creative leads to the next higher level of awesome & Be effective to be awesome & When is the best time to start being awesome"
7. You’re a push-over.
You don’t have an opinion for yourself. You don’t say no to anyone and you are too nice. Have a voice. If you don’t agree with something, don’t say you do. If you don’t want to do something, stand ground and don’t go. Simple as that. Have a voice and people will listen. You can’t possibly make everyone happy. Do what makes you happy.
Remember the post "Be effective to be awesome"
This was done for entertainment purposes. My goals were not to offend anyone, but to open their eyes. We all have a lot of learning to do. Lets all take a look at these and see how we can eliminate them. We will move forward and we will succeed. Cheers, to getting laid and starting businesses. We can do it!
Source: Top 7 Reasons Why You’re Not Getting Laid Or Starting A Business
As you could see if you follow my advices from the previous posts you want fail to get laid.
However, thanks to Josh for this list of failures.
Stay awesome...and do the right things!
Yours,
Broda
Here's another interesting post I found during my research about how to be awesome. In fact this is a list why many people fail to be awesome sometimes. If you adopt everything from my previous posts you might not get in one of the traps which are descripte in the following article. Anyway it's good to read this to avoid the mistakes that have been written about.
P.S.: I added an info after every point (italic) where you can find more about this topic in my blog.
Article by Josh:
Who says business and pleasure can’t co-exist? It is quite interesting to see that business and getting laid have a lot in common. One of the most primitive needs we have as human beings is being able to reproduce and pass the seed on to future generations. In other words, survival and reproduction. The whole animal kingdom does it. We have to reproduce to survive as a race. In business we must expand and “marry” companies together, to survive in the competitive markets.
We sit at home wondering why life is not going the way we want to. We engage in self-doubt and think negatively of our situation and blame everyone else except ourselves. These are the top 7 reasons why you’re not getting laid or starting a business.
If you want to improve your dating life make sure to check out this website.
Top 7 Reasons Why You’re Not Getting Laid Or Starting A Business
1. Over-thinking.
You over-think everything. You ask too many questions in your head. Here are a few examples of what goes on in your head: What will happen if I ask him/her out? He/She probably won’t like me. What does he/she think of me? I wonder if he/she has a boyfriend/girlfriend? Gahhh. Yes, “gahhh,” is part of what goes on in your head. The same goes for business. When you start a business you think about similar questions. You ask yourself the “what if” questions and it discourages you. It scatters your brain and you are afraid to do anything about it. Suck it up and just do it.
Remember the post "The Key of being awesome"
2. Not going out.
You can’t expect a special fairy to sprinkle magical dust and bring women/men to you while you sit on your ass. It doesn’t matter where you go so long as there are some people present. It could be a bar or club, lounge, book store, grocery store, networking event, speed dating event, restaurant, friends house, the places are endless. Just get out there! This goes the same for business. Good companies don’t form themselves. The successful companies have employees and very rarely would you find a 1 man/woman operation. Getting out there and meeting professionals is essential to growing your brand and growing your business. If you have a blog/website you have to market it. You have to tell people or there will be no traffic and your blog or website will fold. Once again, it’s not just going to drop into your lap. It just doesn’t work that way. Get out there!
* Engage in conversation with a stranger. If you are scared to talk to men/women try talking to sales people at a clothing store. They are there to talk to you. This will help you practice talking to a random person.
* You never know who you are going to meet. By talking to random people you can never know who you will meet or who they will introduce you to. So start up a conversation! It’s fun.
Remember the posts "Be the Yes Man & The magic moment theory...awesome style"
3. Lack of confidence.
If you lack in confidence, you lack the fundamentals of getting laid or starting a business. If you look like you don’t care about yourself, no one will care about you. Take care of yourself by showering, smelling good and dressing well everyday. It will not only make you feel better, you will look better. If you look and feel better, you will gain more confidence. You never know what situation you will be in throughout the day. By looking good at every moment, you prepare for what could happen throughout the day. Here are 3 things that you could do to boost your confidence.
* Dress and smell good. Go buy yourself some new clothes. If you don’t know where to start, take a look a look at lifestyle magazines like GQ or Men’s Health and for women, Cosmo and Women’s Health. Get some fresh ideas on how you want to look and try and replicate it. Smelling good also boost confidence. If you get noticed by smelling good not only does it boost your moral, it boosts your confidence as well. Men and women equally love compliments, so give them, but not too often! (you would just sound insincere if you keep doing it)
* Get a haircut. Try something new. Sometimes we forget that we have had the same hairstyle for so long. Look at a magazines and see what could work for you. See if your barber or a salon can replicate it.
* Workout. Go hit the weights, run, walk your dog, etc. Even if its for a short time, take some time out of the day to take care of yourself.
In the next posts there will be an article about How to get an awesome body. So keep on reading my blog!
4. Can’t pull the trigger.
You have prepared your business plan, or your ready to ask the girl/guy of your dreams out on a date, and yet, you can’t do it. You just won’t pull the trigger. Self-doubt clouds your mind and you go back to 1st reason on why you’re not starting a business or getting laid. You over think it and say it will never happen. Stay positive and pull the trigger.
Remember the posts "Most awesome stuff happens beyond the comfort zone & Try to be awesome all the time"
5. Fear of rejection.
You fear the unknown and you won’t take a risk. You have to ask yourself, “what is the worst that could happen?” You have a 50/50 chance of the person saying yes or no. I like those chances. If you get rejected, move along and don’t take it too seriously. There are plenty of fish in the sea. With business, we fear rejection as well. You don’t want to go to the bank to ask for a loan application because you think you’re going to get denied. When you denied for job offers or a business loan you immediately discount yourself and say “maybe it’s never meant to be.” After you get rejected a couple of times, you will understand that it really isn’t that bad after all. My father always told me to try to get a “yes” answer from everything you do, and if you don’t get that answer, keep trying until you do.You have to fight the fear and face it. Get rejected, who cares! Move on, learn, and get over it.
Remember the posts "Most awesome stuff happens beyond the comfort zone & The awesome guy named Thomas Edison"
6. You’re Lazy.
When you are lazy, nothing in life will ever get accomplished. You have focus on what you want and go after it proactively. This encompasses almost all the traits of why you’re not getting laid or starting a business. You won’t take the time and effort to go through the learning processes. You won’t start because you feel like you won’t succeed. You put things off and wait till the last minute and you wonder why you aren’t succeeding.
Remember the posts "Being crazy and creative leads to the next higher level of awesome & Be effective to be awesome & When is the best time to start being awesome"
7. You’re a push-over.
You don’t have an opinion for yourself. You don’t say no to anyone and you are too nice. Have a voice. If you don’t agree with something, don’t say you do. If you don’t want to do something, stand ground and don’t go. Simple as that. Have a voice and people will listen. You can’t possibly make everyone happy. Do what makes you happy.
Remember the post "Be effective to be awesome"
This was done for entertainment purposes. My goals were not to offend anyone, but to open their eyes. We all have a lot of learning to do. Lets all take a look at these and see how we can eliminate them. We will move forward and we will succeed. Cheers, to getting laid and starting businesses. We can do it!
Source: Top 7 Reasons Why You’re Not Getting Laid Or Starting A Business
As you could see if you follow my advices from the previous posts you want fail to get laid.
However, thanks to Josh for this list of failures.
Stay awesome...and do the right things!
Yours,
Broda
Sunday, October 25, 2009
How to use Adult Dating Sites for getting laid every night!
Hey bros,
here's a nice article I found about essential ground rules of using adult dating sites. If you try to use the internet for getting chicks you should read this carefully to maximize your success. And if you use all the other stuff I told you yet I bet they will tell all their other hot female friends about you...;-)
Article by Jenna S.:
Okay be honest: how many times have you thought about what it'd be like to hook up with a different girl every night? Well now, you can find out firsthand thanks to Adult Personals sites. Follow these easy steps, and you may find yourself totally exhausted by the end of the week!
1.) Sign Up For Adult Dating
The first step to getting lots of tail is to join an Adult Personals site. By signing up for your free profile, you'll gain access to hundreds of beautiful and horny women in your area.
2.) Post Pictures
They say that a picture is worth a thousand words. With online dating, it could mean a thousand ladies. The bottom line is that women want to see what you look like before meeting you. No picture = no response. Post a nice headshot and body shot of yourself. No shots of your private area. Women only find those shots amusing at bachelorette parties.
3.) Write Snazzy Essays
With so many men out there finding hook ups too, you must find ways to stand out. One way is to write sharp essays in your profile. Keep them brief - and witty. After all, doesn't every woman want "a guy with a sense of humor?"
4.) Contact Lots Of Women
If you're looking to bed tons of ladies, you need to put in the time to find them. Make a point of writing to at least 5-10 women a day. Don't send out the same email to every girl - personalize each note, and you'll better your chances of getting a response. Be polite. Coming off like a pervert will only put off the woman you wrote to, and possibly get you reported to customer service for abuse.
5.) Be Positive & Easygoing
Women want to be put at ease when meeting men online. So the more cool and flexible you are, the more women will be open to meeting you. Also, if you don't get a response from someone you wrote to, or you get a "No, thank you," be a gentleman about it. You never know. The woman who turns you down may have a girlfriend or two for you instead.
There are other things you can do as well to boost your chances of hooking up with a different girl every night of the week. This includes, but is not limited to, staying fit, eating right, keeping yourself well-groomed, smiling, having good posture, having good social skills and being confident. Lastly, if you go out of your way to please your women in bed, it's almost guaranteed they'll keep coming back for more, for weeks on end!
Source: Jenna S.
Stay awesome...even if you are hunting online!
Yours,
Broda
here's a nice article I found about essential ground rules of using adult dating sites. If you try to use the internet for getting chicks you should read this carefully to maximize your success. And if you use all the other stuff I told you yet I bet they will tell all their other hot female friends about you...;-)
Article by Jenna S.:
Okay be honest: how many times have you thought about what it'd be like to hook up with a different girl every night? Well now, you can find out firsthand thanks to Adult Personals sites. Follow these easy steps, and you may find yourself totally exhausted by the end of the week!
1.) Sign Up For Adult Dating
The first step to getting lots of tail is to join an Adult Personals site. By signing up for your free profile, you'll gain access to hundreds of beautiful and horny women in your area.
2.) Post Pictures
They say that a picture is worth a thousand words. With online dating, it could mean a thousand ladies. The bottom line is that women want to see what you look like before meeting you. No picture = no response. Post a nice headshot and body shot of yourself. No shots of your private area. Women only find those shots amusing at bachelorette parties.
3.) Write Snazzy Essays
With so many men out there finding hook ups too, you must find ways to stand out. One way is to write sharp essays in your profile. Keep them brief - and witty. After all, doesn't every woman want "a guy with a sense of humor?"
4.) Contact Lots Of Women
If you're looking to bed tons of ladies, you need to put in the time to find them. Make a point of writing to at least 5-10 women a day. Don't send out the same email to every girl - personalize each note, and you'll better your chances of getting a response. Be polite. Coming off like a pervert will only put off the woman you wrote to, and possibly get you reported to customer service for abuse.
5.) Be Positive & Easygoing
Women want to be put at ease when meeting men online. So the more cool and flexible you are, the more women will be open to meeting you. Also, if you don't get a response from someone you wrote to, or you get a "No, thank you," be a gentleman about it. You never know. The woman who turns you down may have a girlfriend or two for you instead.
There are other things you can do as well to boost your chances of hooking up with a different girl every night of the week. This includes, but is not limited to, staying fit, eating right, keeping yourself well-groomed, smiling, having good posture, having good social skills and being confident. Lastly, if you go out of your way to please your women in bed, it's almost guaranteed they'll keep coming back for more, for weeks on end!
Source: Jenna S.
Stay awesome...even if you are hunting online!
Yours,
Broda
Monday, October 19, 2009
Addendum to the post about effectivness!
Hi bros,
short awesome addition to the time management topic:
The 30-second-rule
"If you can deal with something you should/want/ have to do within 30 seconds, you should deal with it right now."
With this rule you can manage a lot of small things better (quickies too ;-)) and you don't forget some of them.
It's more relaxed and you can handle everything better.
Yours,
Broda
short awesome addition to the time management topic:
The 30-second-rule
"If you can deal with something you should/want/ have to do within 30 seconds, you should deal with it right now."
With this rule you can manage a lot of small things better (quickies too ;-)) and you don't forget some of them.
It's more relaxed and you can handle everything better.
Yours,
Broda
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
When is the best time to start being awesome?
Hello bros,
many people tell that they will change their lifes, stop smoking, start a diet, start with sport, talk to this hot chick they see every morning in the elevator, start to be awesome etc.
The same people tell you they definitely will do this....from tomorrow on or more common from next monday on....I always ask them "why not right now?"
Do they really think it will work out better on the beginning of a week?? Why??
I tell you the reason why they never say now...
They are afraid of changes, risks, possible disappointments...they are afraid of leaving their personal comfort zone...in the end they are afraid of what normal people call "The Life"!
Pretty often when it comes to the monday they become chicken-hearted and start to look for excuse why they wanna postphone it to the next monday...this becomes a vicious circle and in the end they give up without really trying.
Are you like them? Be honest...
The good thing is it is never too late for a change...
Remember the post "Just do it"? Otherwise read it again (read the others again too) and then start to be awesome...not tomorrow, not even in one hour...NOW is always the right time for every life-changing-project!!!!
Be awesome...now!
Yours,
Broda
many people tell that they will change their lifes, stop smoking, start a diet, start with sport, talk to this hot chick they see every morning in the elevator, start to be awesome etc.
The same people tell you they definitely will do this....from tomorrow on or more common from next monday on....I always ask them "why not right now?"
Do they really think it will work out better on the beginning of a week?? Why??
I tell you the reason why they never say now...
They are afraid of changes, risks, possible disappointments...they are afraid of leaving their personal comfort zone...in the end they are afraid of what normal people call "The Life"!
Pretty often when it comes to the monday they become chicken-hearted and start to look for excuse why they wanna postphone it to the next monday...this becomes a vicious circle and in the end they give up without really trying.
Are you like them? Be honest...
The good thing is it is never too late for a change...
Remember the post "Just do it"? Otherwise read it again (read the others again too) and then start to be awesome...not tomorrow, not even in one hour...NOW is always the right time for every life-changing-project!!!!
Be awesome...now!
Yours,
Broda
Monday, October 12, 2009
Be effective to be awesome!
Hello bros,
this time it's all about being effective and to what it is going to lead to.
Some of you might already know the difference between effective and efficent...
I explain it with a sales example for those who don't know:
As a sales guy you can work very efficent by making 60 calls/h...10h/day...without a break you complete 600 calls/day...every day...in the evening you're totally exhausted...no time for being awesome...no time for pick up sexy chicks...and in the end you just close some small deals...you don't earn much money...don't get the ladies...don't get the promotion...don't be awesome...in fact you don't get the life you deserve as a bro...
The other sales guy (one like me ;-))...you just work max. 6 h/day (and that still is too much)...you make just one call/h but you talk more, laugh and have fun with the guy on the other side...you've just hot contacts and don't make any cold call...you work with a self-builded network...your work is at ease...you go out and close big deals...you don't waste time with stupid prospects of whom you already know that they won't buy...you have an awesome life with fun, money, power and girls...you really work effective...that's what you bros deserve...
The good thing is you always can become one of the second kind.
I know you ask yourself "how?" by now...
Here are some tricks of how-to-be more effective (which normally leads to a better life):
- avoid time wasters: Don't check your mails every five minutes. That costs a lot of time and you'll never be focused. Don't do what is anyone else work (no problem if you do someone a favor but don't do favors all day). Don't call cold-contact-lists. Don't meet with prospects of whom you already know that they don't buy (some just do this over and over to show their boss that they are busy as a bee...read the next point about this). You can find more about this topic in "the 4-hour work week" of Timothy Ferris...I recommend to read this one no matter what you do for living.
- always think result-orientated: Nobody cares about what you do at work when you don't generate wealth (no matter what kind of) for the company. If you cook coffee every day no one will care about when it comes to fire or promote someone. Everything that really counts for any company is generating wealth (even if you're in customer service you make customers more happy and they will recommend your company which leads to a higher turnover and more wealth). Important: You just get paid for your results not for your effort! Remember this!!
- jump off projects/clients that are already lost: If you realize it makes no sense anymore go to your supervisor and tell him...if he don't accept then go to his boss. Nothing is worse for your self-esteem and for your (personal and financial) satisfaction than waste hour after hour in a dead-end project. Don't do this to you...you have to do something to generate wealth!
- don't do cold calls: They don't work! Think about it (from your own experience). Or read "Never cold call again" from Frank Rumbauskas if you want more explanations and solutions.
- think about how you can manipulate your supervisor: You should get the hot contacts/the prestigious projects and the letter of recommendation for the next post. So be nice but focused...show him/her how you can help him/her to achieve their personal goals and he/she will help you to achieve yours. If it's a she...nail her and than your position will be better in most cases...;-)
- think about who are your friends and who aren't: Your friends could help you by supporting you in hard times...you should return the favor. When you have enemies than you should know them...and fight them with their own weapons or if they can't sabotage you then just ignore them and care about the positive stuff.
-do networking: Read the post about "stay in touch...with everybody"!
- think about what parts of your work really lead to success: Eliminate everything else (ecxept the stuff you like...). Focus on this and you are successful in a short time.
- organize your time: By doing so you can save time every day and decrease your stress level which brings you to more awesome time to relaxe or have sex or sleep or or or...You can find a lot good tips in the internet or in different books. One important principle is the one of pareto. It says that you can achieve 80% success with 20% of your work/time...so just do the important 20% two times a day and you can reduce worktime by 60% and get 200% outcome...:-) This makes a big difference if you always keep that in mind!
- in every decision you have to make think about weather or not it helps you to achieve your targets: Self-explaining.
- set priorities: This is a very important point to organize your day/life. Try this priorization-system of Eisenhower: Make four quarters and lable them like this...1st urgent and important; 2nd urgent but unimportant; 3rd not urgent but important; 4th not urgent and unimportand. Now allocate your "duties" to those quarters. Do everything in the first quarter asap, deligate the stuff from the second quarter or do it after you did the other stuff, set yourself deadlines/milestones for everything in the 3rd and do them on your own, when it comes to the 4th...throw it in the trash can.
- show your balls: Don't let others use you and say no to those who won't help you or others. Think about the bank of favors in this context. Sometimes you have to be the tough guy to show you are capable of being a leader and you are worth to be supported. You're the man!
- try to seperate free time from work time: Nothing is more important than to relaxe from work and to enjoy awesome free time. If you can't separate your free time from your work you face an unhappy life full of sorrows with a early end. Think about this worst case to show yourself why you should enjoy free time without thinking of work...
- be honest to yourself: Are you really capable of doing this job? Do you like it? Do you think you'll be happy with it? Can you earn enough to make your dreams come true? --> if you answer any of this questions with no quit your job as soon as possible... (Attention: If you have kids or others you have to care about than find a solution for them before you quit! But do it anyway.)
You can implement most of this stuff in every area of your life...I just took the work example to make the points clear for everybody.
Be awesome...effectively!
Yours,
Broda
this time it's all about being effective and to what it is going to lead to.
Some of you might already know the difference between effective and efficent...
I explain it with a sales example for those who don't know:
As a sales guy you can work very efficent by making 60 calls/h...10h/day...without a break you complete 600 calls/day...every day...in the evening you're totally exhausted...no time for being awesome...no time for pick up sexy chicks...and in the end you just close some small deals...you don't earn much money...don't get the ladies...don't get the promotion...don't be awesome...in fact you don't get the life you deserve as a bro...
The other sales guy (one like me ;-))...you just work max. 6 h/day (and that still is too much)...you make just one call/h but you talk more, laugh and have fun with the guy on the other side...you've just hot contacts and don't make any cold call...you work with a self-builded network...your work is at ease...you go out and close big deals...you don't waste time with stupid prospects of whom you already know that they won't buy...you have an awesome life with fun, money, power and girls...you really work effective...that's what you bros deserve...
The good thing is you always can become one of the second kind.
I know you ask yourself "how?" by now...
Here are some tricks of how-to-be more effective (which normally leads to a better life):
- avoid time wasters: Don't check your mails every five minutes. That costs a lot of time and you'll never be focused. Don't do what is anyone else work (no problem if you do someone a favor but don't do favors all day). Don't call cold-contact-lists. Don't meet with prospects of whom you already know that they don't buy (some just do this over and over to show their boss that they are busy as a bee...read the next point about this). You can find more about this topic in "the 4-hour work week" of Timothy Ferris...I recommend to read this one no matter what you do for living.
- always think result-orientated: Nobody cares about what you do at work when you don't generate wealth (no matter what kind of) for the company. If you cook coffee every day no one will care about when it comes to fire or promote someone. Everything that really counts for any company is generating wealth (even if you're in customer service you make customers more happy and they will recommend your company which leads to a higher turnover and more wealth). Important: You just get paid for your results not for your effort! Remember this!!
- jump off projects/clients that are already lost: If you realize it makes no sense anymore go to your supervisor and tell him...if he don't accept then go to his boss. Nothing is worse for your self-esteem and for your (personal and financial) satisfaction than waste hour after hour in a dead-end project. Don't do this to you...you have to do something to generate wealth!
- don't do cold calls: They don't work! Think about it (from your own experience). Or read "Never cold call again" from Frank Rumbauskas if you want more explanations and solutions.
- think about how you can manipulate your supervisor: You should get the hot contacts/the prestigious projects and the letter of recommendation for the next post. So be nice but focused...show him/her how you can help him/her to achieve their personal goals and he/she will help you to achieve yours. If it's a she...nail her and than your position will be better in most cases...;-)
- think about who are your friends and who aren't: Your friends could help you by supporting you in hard times...you should return the favor. When you have enemies than you should know them...and fight them with their own weapons or if they can't sabotage you then just ignore them and care about the positive stuff.
-do networking: Read the post about "stay in touch...with everybody"!
- think about what parts of your work really lead to success: Eliminate everything else (ecxept the stuff you like...). Focus on this and you are successful in a short time.
- organize your time: By doing so you can save time every day and decrease your stress level which brings you to more awesome time to relaxe or have sex or sleep or or or...You can find a lot good tips in the internet or in different books. One important principle is the one of pareto. It says that you can achieve 80% success with 20% of your work/time...so just do the important 20% two times a day and you can reduce worktime by 60% and get 200% outcome...:-) This makes a big difference if you always keep that in mind!
- in every decision you have to make think about weather or not it helps you to achieve your targets: Self-explaining.
- set priorities: This is a very important point to organize your day/life. Try this priorization-system of Eisenhower: Make four quarters and lable them like this...1st urgent and important; 2nd urgent but unimportant; 3rd not urgent but important; 4th not urgent and unimportand. Now allocate your "duties" to those quarters. Do everything in the first quarter asap, deligate the stuff from the second quarter or do it after you did the other stuff, set yourself deadlines/milestones for everything in the 3rd and do them on your own, when it comes to the 4th...throw it in the trash can.
- show your balls: Don't let others use you and say no to those who won't help you or others. Think about the bank of favors in this context. Sometimes you have to be the tough guy to show you are capable of being a leader and you are worth to be supported. You're the man!
- try to seperate free time from work time: Nothing is more important than to relaxe from work and to enjoy awesome free time. If you can't separate your free time from your work you face an unhappy life full of sorrows with a early end. Think about this worst case to show yourself why you should enjoy free time without thinking of work...
- be honest to yourself: Are you really capable of doing this job? Do you like it? Do you think you'll be happy with it? Can you earn enough to make your dreams come true? --> if you answer any of this questions with no quit your job as soon as possible... (Attention: If you have kids or others you have to care about than find a solution for them before you quit! But do it anyway.)
You can implement most of this stuff in every area of your life...I just took the work example to make the points clear for everybody.
Be awesome...effectively!
Yours,
Broda
Friday, October 9, 2009
Short Note: How to run the NYC Marathon!
Hello bros,
according to Barney Stinson there are two steps of finishing a marathon...
Step 1: Start running
Step 2: There is no step two...
;-))
This is also an example of how "Just do it" and "Leaving the comfort zone" could be integrated in your life...
Belive it or not...this is how it works (all the worldclass athletes are doing it that way...maybe they are a bit faster then you are ;-) ...but anyway who cares)
If you want to you can try it out on the 1st of November this year...please tell me afterwards how you feel (physically and mentally)...I'm very interested in it ;-)
Stay awesome...even if you just have ran 42,195 km!
Yours,
Broda
btw: Here you can find more information about NYC Marathon
according to Barney Stinson there are two steps of finishing a marathon...
Step 1: Start running
Step 2: There is no step two...
;-))
This is also an example of how "Just do it" and "Leaving the comfort zone" could be integrated in your life...
Belive it or not...this is how it works (all the worldclass athletes are doing it that way...maybe they are a bit faster then you are ;-) ...but anyway who cares)
If you want to you can try it out on the 1st of November this year...please tell me afterwards how you feel (physically and mentally)...I'm very interested in it ;-)
Stay awesome...even if you just have ran 42,195 km!
Yours,
Broda
btw: Here you can find more information about NYC Marathon
Thursday, October 8, 2009
The magic moment theory...awesome style!
Hello bros,
I'd been away for a few days. Apology for not telling you before.
But let's get back to business...
If you've ever read a book of awesome writer Paulo Coelho you might have heard of the daily magic moment in which you can change your entire life.
He says that every day there is at least one moment in which you have the chance to change your whole life. You just have to recognize them and take the chance if you want a change...it's not said that it'll be always a good one, but it could be...in fact if you never try you'll never know...
Think about my posts before than you can understand better what I want to tell you with this.
To think in really awesome dimensions...like me...you can broaden this statement of Paulo...
There are not just a few moments in which you can dramatically change your life...you are almost always able to decide to change your whole life/future (exceptions are situations in which you can't change your behaviour or the circumstances like when you are in the hospital).
It's always in your hands to act different and to make your life more interesting e.g. quit your job and move to argentina...latin chicks are hot ;-)
Stay awesome...and never forget, you can make the change...always!
Yours,
Broda
I'd been away for a few days. Apology for not telling you before.
But let's get back to business...
If you've ever read a book of awesome writer Paulo Coelho you might have heard of the daily magic moment in which you can change your entire life.
He says that every day there is at least one moment in which you have the chance to change your whole life. You just have to recognize them and take the chance if you want a change...it's not said that it'll be always a good one, but it could be...in fact if you never try you'll never know...
Think about my posts before than you can understand better what I want to tell you with this.
To think in really awesome dimensions...like me...you can broaden this statement of Paulo...
There are not just a few moments in which you can dramatically change your life...you are almost always able to decide to change your whole life/future (exceptions are situations in which you can't change your behaviour or the circumstances like when you are in the hospital).
It's always in your hands to act different and to make your life more interesting e.g. quit your job and move to argentina...latin chicks are hot ;-)
Stay awesome...and never forget, you can make the change...always!
Yours,
Broda
Monday, September 28, 2009
The awesome guy named Thomas Edison!
Hello bros,
"never say never" is a wise saying which all of you should respect if you wanna be awesome.
Sometimes you try stuff and it doesn't work very well...but then you should try it again...maybe with a few changes. I know it's uncomfortable if you leave your comfort zone and do something totally crazy to get in contact with a chick and she just laugh at you and tell you how ridicioulus you are...but guess what...maybe other chicks like it...or, if not, you should modify it a bit.
Most important is that you don't care what others think about you (this DOESN'T count for your real friends)! Don't give a fuck about one stupid bitch. Try it again and you'll see one day you'll be on the bright side of life just because you kept on trying all the stuff I told you.
If you doubt that you can manage disappointments then think about this awesome guy named Thomas Alva Edison. He with his perseverance should be a role model for you everytime you fail.
His favourite quote:
"never say never" is a wise saying which all of you should respect if you wanna be awesome.
Sometimes you try stuff and it doesn't work very well...but then you should try it again...maybe with a few changes. I know it's uncomfortable if you leave your comfort zone and do something totally crazy to get in contact with a chick and she just laugh at you and tell you how ridicioulus you are...but guess what...maybe other chicks like it...or, if not, you should modify it a bit.
Most important is that you don't care what others think about you (this DOESN'T count for your real friends)! Don't give a fuck about one stupid bitch. Try it again and you'll see one day you'll be on the bright side of life just because you kept on trying all the stuff I told you.
If you doubt that you can manage disappointments then think about this awesome guy named Thomas Alva Edison. He with his perseverance should be a role model for you everytime you fail.
His favourite quote:
“I haven't failed, I've found 10,000 ways that don't work”
should be a guideline for you...and I am pretty sure that you won't fail that often.
Take it as lessons how not to do something and think about what you can change to be more successful.
Stay awesome...even if it doesn't work the first time you try!
Yours,
Broda
should be a guideline for you...and I am pretty sure that you won't fail that often.
Take it as lessons how not to do something and think about what you can change to be more successful.
Stay awesome...even if it doesn't work the first time you try!
Yours,
Broda
Stay in touch...with everybody!
Hello Bros,
one important thing in an awesome life is networking...I know, some might say that they hate it and that they wanna be promoted because of their expertise or their actions...the same people want others to help them just because they're so friendly...and last but not least, some wanna hook up as often as possible without having a good network of friends who may help them (e.g. as wingmen or just as "connectors").
one important thing in an awesome life is networking...I know, some might say that they hate it and that they wanna be promoted because of their expertise or their actions...the same people want others to help them just because they're so friendly...and last but not least, some wanna hook up as often as possible without having a good network of friends who may help them (e.g. as wingmen or just as "connectors").
I just want to tell you one thing: Forget it!
The fastest way in life is by letting others help you to get what you want.
By "using" others you can get an awesome life at ease.
The term "using" shouldn't be negative...there is a fictitius institution called "The bank of favors"... you take from others and you give to others without a direct benefit for the other party...it could give you a credit sometimes, but in the end you should always try to bring it to a balanced level (otherwise it could be closed for you when you hardly need it).
It's not a shame if you let other people help you...in the end you'll be the one with a happier life and lots of friends/ONS/money/power.
Think about how often you recognized that someone achieved a goal with the help of someone else...is he less proud?...is he less happy?...is he less satisfied?
What would be if he didn't use the help of others? How would you feel if you fail???
You can live in a cheap one-room-apartement with artificial light and hook up with your hand every night by watching the only porno you own or you could live in playboy mansion and have sex with hot chicks everyday just because this old man who lives there helped you....which option will you choose?
Use your contacts and let them use you too!
Some of you might think now that they don't have contacts that could help them by simplify their lifes...now think back in time...imagine everybody you met would still be in touch with you...do you really think not even one of all those people could help you in any part of your life???...it's never too late to get back in touch with most of them (especially today with XING or facebook)...and you definitely should start to stay in touch with everyone you know right now (even with people who look like they could never help you...maybe you can help them...and maybe three years later the bro of their father could help you...you never know)...that's how you prepare your awesome life in the future!
Now here is a technique for staying in touch without wasting too much time:
Imagine you have 500 contacts right now (no matter from where they are)
If you contact just two of them per day (make a list of them so that you could see who you already have contacted) you can contact everyone twice a year which is enough for staying in their mind. If it comes to the point someone of your cold contacts could be more interesting for you (new Job, new boobs ;-), no lover--> remember the rebound guy) make him/her a hot one by date her or go for a drink in a bar with him to chat and try to let them help you.
Some of your contacts might get lost over the time (happens usually after you hook up with her..or his wife) and some new will be added...if you've to many contacts you can seperate the cold ones in "contact twice/year", "contact once/year", "contact every 18 months"........depending on how good/worthy they are.
You see it's easy and doesn't waste a lot of time. Try it out and harvest the big fruits of your small action.
This should be enough stuff for today.
Stay awesome...with everyone you know!
Yours,
Broda
The fastest way in life is by letting others help you to get what you want.
By "using" others you can get an awesome life at ease.
The term "using" shouldn't be negative...there is a fictitius institution called "The bank of favors"... you take from others and you give to others without a direct benefit for the other party...it could give you a credit sometimes, but in the end you should always try to bring it to a balanced level (otherwise it could be closed for you when you hardly need it).
It's not a shame if you let other people help you...in the end you'll be the one with a happier life and lots of friends/ONS/money/power.
Think about how often you recognized that someone achieved a goal with the help of someone else...is he less proud?...is he less happy?...is he less satisfied?
What would be if he didn't use the help of others? How would you feel if you fail???
You can live in a cheap one-room-apartement with artificial light and hook up with your hand every night by watching the only porno you own or you could live in playboy mansion and have sex with hot chicks everyday just because this old man who lives there helped you....which option will you choose?
Use your contacts and let them use you too!
Some of you might think now that they don't have contacts that could help them by simplify their lifes...now think back in time...imagine everybody you met would still be in touch with you...do you really think not even one of all those people could help you in any part of your life???...it's never too late to get back in touch with most of them (especially today with XING or facebook)...and you definitely should start to stay in touch with everyone you know right now (even with people who look like they could never help you...maybe you can help them...and maybe three years later the bro of their father could help you...you never know)...that's how you prepare your awesome life in the future!
Now here is a technique for staying in touch without wasting too much time:
Imagine you have 500 contacts right now (no matter from where they are)
- You see 40 of them regulary (at least once a week) at work - they are hot and it needs almost no additional effort to hold them hot
- 10 of them are good friends - hot like the previous
- 50 are friends you meet at least once a month (at parties, weddings, bowling etc.) - at least warm so that it needs just a few words at a party to keep in touch
- 50 are family members (your own, of your girlfriend, from your best bros, from the husband of your sister) - warm forever (except they hate you or you break up with the girl etc. then they become totally lost)
If you contact just two of them per day (make a list of them so that you could see who you already have contacted) you can contact everyone twice a year which is enough for staying in their mind. If it comes to the point someone of your cold contacts could be more interesting for you (new Job, new boobs ;-), no lover--> remember the rebound guy) make him/her a hot one by date her or go for a drink in a bar with him to chat and try to let them help you.
Some of your contacts might get lost over the time (happens usually after you hook up with her..or his wife) and some new will be added...if you've to many contacts you can seperate the cold ones in "contact twice/year", "contact once/year", "contact every 18 months"........depending on how good/worthy they are.
You see it's easy and doesn't waste a lot of time. Try it out and harvest the big fruits of your small action.
This should be enough stuff for today.
Stay awesome...with everyone you know!
Yours,
Broda
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
The key of being awesome!
Hello bros,
there are three small words that are able to transform your entire life from "boring" to "awesome".
These three words are...tatatata...
"JUST DO IT!"
Instead of always think about it or talk about it the main word in here is "do". "Do" something is the only way to change your life to what you want it to be.
Obviously this is the essential criterion to use all the theoretical background you already got from this blog.
Never forget these words and try it out to see how awesome life could be.
Stay awesome...really do it!
Yours,
Broda
there are three small words that are able to transform your entire life from "boring" to "awesome".
These three words are...tatatata...
"JUST DO IT!"
Instead of always think about it or talk about it the main word in here is "do". "Do" something is the only way to change your life to what you want it to be.
Obviously this is the essential criterion to use all the theoretical background you already got from this blog.
Never forget these words and try it out to see how awesome life could be.
Stay awesome...really do it!
Yours,
Broda
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Be the Yes Man!
Hello bros,
I don't know how much of you have seen the "Yes Man" with Jim Carrey, but those who haven't should watch it. In this movie you can find a really important message if you wanna live an awesome life. Like I already told you before in the posts about being creative and about steping out of your comfort zone, this is what makes your life more interesting, challenging and fun.
If you just try to say yes more often (you don't need to say yes to everything, but try it if you aren't sure instead of always saying no in this cases) you will see how this will enrich your life with awesome experiences, hot stories, success and fun!
Just imagine you come home from work...6pm...and you feel a bit tired. Your mobile rings and you answer it...your best bro asks you to join him and some other guys to go out...you say no because you just wanna relax, watch TV and go to bed early. Next day you recive a call from him...it was the greatest night he ever had and he will tell you this every time you meet...he shares this legendary night with some guys you barely know...and with twin chicks...;-)
Now think of what might had happen if you had said yes....and you really are awesome...oh what a night...you would share this story with your bro till nobody can hear it anymore, but you would keep telling it till the end of time;-))
In which case would you feel better...?
Or think about this...
A chick asked you out tonight...you say no because you're tired...nothing happens for you (she might have a good time and hook up with someone else and you're out of the game)....but now think about what could happen if you say yes....to what does it lead you....do you like it?
You might not regret it if you say no, but this is just because you never know what had happened ...better find it out.
Next time just say yes and let your life lead you to the awesome stuff.
Stay awesome...yes we will!
Yours,
Broda
I don't know how much of you have seen the "Yes Man" with Jim Carrey, but those who haven't should watch it. In this movie you can find a really important message if you wanna live an awesome life. Like I already told you before in the posts about being creative and about steping out of your comfort zone, this is what makes your life more interesting, challenging and fun.
If you just try to say yes more often (you don't need to say yes to everything, but try it if you aren't sure instead of always saying no in this cases) you will see how this will enrich your life with awesome experiences, hot stories, success and fun!
Just imagine you come home from work...6pm...and you feel a bit tired. Your mobile rings and you answer it...your best bro asks you to join him and some other guys to go out...you say no because you just wanna relax, watch TV and go to bed early. Next day you recive a call from him...it was the greatest night he ever had and he will tell you this every time you meet...he shares this legendary night with some guys you barely know...and with twin chicks...;-)
Now think of what might had happen if you had said yes....and you really are awesome...oh what a night...you would share this story with your bro till nobody can hear it anymore, but you would keep telling it till the end of time;-))
In which case would you feel better...?
Or think about this...
A chick asked you out tonight...you say no because you're tired...nothing happens for you (she might have a good time and hook up with someone else and you're out of the game)....but now think about what could happen if you say yes....to what does it lead you....do you like it?
You might not regret it if you say no, but this is just because you never know what had happened ...better find it out.
Next time just say yes and let your life lead you to the awesome stuff.
Stay awesome...yes we will!
Yours,
Broda
Friday, September 18, 2009
Top 10 - How to get laid for less then 10 bucks
Hello bros,
today I won't write the lesson by myself but copy it from a bro called Nick Coles. Normally I won't do this but I liked this post and it could give you some ideas of how to get laid and be awesome without spending money for it.
So here it is....
Enjoy this Top 10 and try it out!
Stay awesome...and get laid!
Yours,
Broda
10. Take Her to an Art Gallery Opening
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Art gallery openings are the perfect cheapskate’s date. They provide free booze, the heightened atmosphere of a premiere, and usually don’t have a guest list. A date at an art gallery will impress your lady friend. It will make you look sophisticated, creative, and passionate. The art will also help stimulate conversation. If you really want to ensure getting laid, do your homework and take her to an art gallery with sexually charged artworks. Some tasteful nudes will plant the seeds of sex in her head. You will also be able to work out your chances of getting laid by watching her reaction to the art. If she blushes, you can laugh it off and drop her home early. If she loves it, then you’re in with a fighting chance. Heighten the stakes by suggesting you go back to your place and recreate some of the images. Girls love to get creative, and this is a great way to get her naked.
9. Go Stargazing
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A girl goes crazy when a guy gets creative and organizes a romantic date. One of the most romantic dates is stargazing. All you need is a car, a blanket, a clear night, and some stars in the sky. You may also want to throw in a cheap bottle of wine. Before the date, do some research on the different star constellations. This will give you something to talk about and make you sound passionate and intelligent. This type of setting is ideal for big conversations about life, love, hopes and dreams. Girls love this spiritual crap and you will be able to fake a deep connection. This coupled with the stars and wine and you’ll be getting jiggy with it.
8. Pretend You’re in a Band
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Chicks dig rockers. Dudes who are in bands don’t even have to speak and they get laid. Being a rocker is also an economical way to dress. How many times have you worn expensive clothes to a club or bar and gotten nowhere while at the same time some guy who looks homeless is getting some mad action?
All you need to do to look like a rock star is go to your local thrift store and stock up on a pair of tattered tight jeans and a washed out AC/DC t-shirt. Couple this with a belt and unwashed hair and you’ll be in like Flynn. If you have some cash left over, add a fake tattoo for effect. Once you’re in ‘costume,’ go to a bar full of groupies, talk bullshit about your music and wait for them to flock.
7. “Learn” a Foreign Accent
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I hate guys with foreign accents because they don’t even need to try and they get play. Women go weak at the knees over some dude with an accent. I suppose accents are like cheese, and most girls like something foreign and exotic.
To a girl, a guy with a foreign accent is like taking a vacation, and you know how slutty girls are when they are on vacation. Girls also like the thought that a dude they hook up with is not going to end up as a neighbor or someone they’ll bump into at the supermarket.
To get laid like a foreigner, learn an accent. Rent an English language film with a French or Italian actor in it and copy how they sound. If this is too difficult, pretend you are English, Australian or South African. The next step is do some research online and prepare you back story. You want a girl to be swept up in your foreignness. Do this and you’ll sweep her off her feet and into your bed.
6. Play the Sympathy Card
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Only play the sympathy card to get laid if you are desperate and have tried and failed with the other suggestions on this list. That said, playing the sympathy card is a sure thing and a super cheap way to get action. If you want to do some research on how to get sympathy sex, watch Choke. This film is about a guy who pretends to choke in restaurants in order to take advantage of the kindness of strangers. His fake choking incidents lead to money and sex.
The most important part of sympathy sex is making sure you have a well thought out plan. Target your sad, sympathy-inducing story to the girl you want to bang. For instance, if you know a girl who really loves dogs ring her up all sad and ask her to come over to your place. Before she arrives, it is important to look like you’ve been crying and are really upset. Try chopping an onion. When she arrives tell her your beloved childhood dog just passed away and that you needed someone to talk to, console you and share a cheap bottle of wine with. In no time she’ll be hugging you, a little drunk and asking you how she can make you feel better. You know the rest. Near death experiences, where mouth-to-mouth is needed, are also a good way to get sympathy sex.
5. Be the Rebound Guy
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When women get dumped they crave male attention. They desperately want to be desired and get back at their ex. This means they are up for a lot of random sex. A small window exists with women on the rebound where it is acceptable for them to be absolute whores. Take advantage of this window. Crawl Facebook and keep an eye out for female friends whose status has changed from “In a Relationship” to “Single.” Then hit them up for a casual coffee. Before you know it, you’ll be hitting it.
4. Chase Chubby Girls
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The trick to getting laid on the cheap is to lower your standards and find girls with low self-esteem. Girls with the lowest self-esteem are fat chicks. Chubby girls are not accustomed to receiving attention or compliments. All you need to do is talk to a porky and she’s all yours.
A sneaky thing to do with a chunky chick is to talk about food. Firstly, you know they’re interested in it and secondly, you can use this information to get laid. Try and steer the conversation to fast food. Find out what place she really loves, agree with it and then suggest you guys go grab it sometime on a date. She’ll think you’re being cute and ironic, whereas you know you’re being cheap. On the date, order ten items from the $1 menu and share it with her (she’ll think this is romantic). Once the meal has ended she’ll feel guilty and unattractive. It is your job to reverse this, so take her home and get McNasty with her.
3. The Craigslist Special
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The World Wide Web made getting laid as simple and easy as a few clicks of the mouse. The Craigslist special is the cheapest and most convenient way to hook up. All you need is patience, low standards and a stock standard email you can quickly send out to any woman who fits your broad criteria. Be prepared to hit up a bunch of girls, because Craigslist is a numbers game. The pay off is you don’t even need to buy the girl a drink. The downside is that petite 18-year-old with the hot photo is most certainly a crazy, overweight, middle-aged freak. Still, getting laid is getting laid.
2. The Ex
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Once you’ve had sex with someone a few times it is really easy to tap it again, whenever you want. Ex sex can be extremely messy, but if you’re really horny you won’t mind dealing with the consequences. Hooking up with an ex is child’s play. All you need to do is call her up and tell her you’d like to talk. Arrange to meet, buy her some cheap supermarket flowers, and tell her you still love her (even/especially if you don’t mean it). This will inevitably lead to intercourse as you reminisce about old times and she plans your future together. In the morning, prepare to be a dick and cut her off.
1. Offer a Ride Home
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Be the ultimate dude and offer a girl a ride home. It shows that you are responsible, caring and chivalrous. Use the drive time to get to know each other better. This is the perfect time to get flirty and intimate. Whatever you do, don’t let the conversation die. You must convince her to invite you into her home, so you can continue that witty, in-depth conversation. If that doesn’t work, invite yourself in by saying you need to use the restroom. Then suggest a nightcap. Continue the conversation and let your words penetrate her until she is putty in your hands.
Source: http://www.spike.com/blog/top-10-ways-to-get/73875
Enjoy this Top 10 and try it out!
Stay awesome...and get laid!
Yours,
Broda
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Digression: The story of my name...
Hello bros,
it's almost weekend and I've two days off so I'm going to chillax a bit...(more about new word mixtures later in the blog). So you can countdown to monday for the next awesome-increasing stuff...
For the end of the week I just wanna share the story of my name with you...
As most of you already recognized I'm a great fan of HIMYM and especially of Barney Stinson (Mr. Legen...wait for it...dary) so I choosed my name after a quotation of him which fits to my mission (teaching you how to live a better life):
"Think of me as Yoda but instead of being little and green I wear suits and I'm awesome. I'm your bro - I'm Broda!"
Now you know why I had choosen Broda as my pseudonym.
Stay awesome...also through the weekend!
Yours,
Broda
it's almost weekend and I've two days off so I'm going to chillax a bit...(more about new word mixtures later in the blog). So you can countdown to monday for the next awesome-increasing stuff...
For the end of the week I just wanna share the story of my name with you...
As most of you already recognized I'm a great fan of HIMYM and especially of Barney Stinson (Mr. Legen...wait for it...dary) so I choosed my name after a quotation of him which fits to my mission (teaching you how to live a better life):
"Think of me as Yoda but instead of being little and green I wear suits and I'm awesome. I'm your bro - I'm Broda!"
Now you know why I had choosen Broda as my pseudonym.
Stay awesome...also through the weekend!
Yours,
Broda
Being crazy and creative leads to the next higher level of awesome!
Hello bros,
in order to reach higher levels of awesomness you need to think and act different compared to the majority of human beings. You don't have to do everything according to the book...in fact you should try to avoid it whenever possible (except if you work in a factory and are working right now...could get you in trouble there ;-).
If you wanna be the one of whom everybody thinks: "I wanna be as awesome as this guy!" you have to catch attention and surprise people by acting creative and a bit crazy (of course in a positive way...not like a serial killer..).
Try it out...it works almost everywhere...at work (your supervisor should see that you aren't one out of twenty-one employees in his area but that you are different/better so that you'll be the first when it comes to a promotion decision), in a bar (I guess you know why), on a sports court (you beat your opponent by doing moves he doesn't expect) and elsewhere.
You know what comes next right? We take a closer look on the bar example...
Here you can see how to pick up a girls number with the help of a creative mind and some wingmen...nice ;-)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r1C0jDdlsaw
Of course you can lay chicks successful without acting as extrordinary as Barney did in this video but think about the fun all your friends will have...and I bet she will never forget this too...
It's all about not being one out of many but being Mr. Awesome himself.
This should make you think about this topic...I guess after a short time you'll have your own ideas how to stand out in a crowd and get the girls, the promotion you deserve (because, if you read my blog you already are awesome all the time) and reach all your goals.
Stay awesome...in a creative way!
Yours,
Broda
in order to reach higher levels of awesomness you need to think and act different compared to the majority of human beings. You don't have to do everything according to the book...in fact you should try to avoid it whenever possible (except if you work in a factory and are working right now...could get you in trouble there ;-).
If you wanna be the one of whom everybody thinks: "I wanna be as awesome as this guy!" you have to catch attention and surprise people by acting creative and a bit crazy (of course in a positive way...not like a serial killer..).
Try it out...it works almost everywhere...at work (your supervisor should see that you aren't one out of twenty-one employees in his area but that you are different/better so that you'll be the first when it comes to a promotion decision), in a bar (I guess you know why), on a sports court (you beat your opponent by doing moves he doesn't expect) and elsewhere.
You know what comes next right? We take a closer look on the bar example...
Here you can see how to pick up a girls number with the help of a creative mind and some wingmen...nice ;-)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r1C0jDdlsaw
Of course you can lay chicks successful without acting as extrordinary as Barney did in this video but think about the fun all your friends will have...and I bet she will never forget this too...
It's all about not being one out of many but being Mr. Awesome himself.
This should make you think about this topic...I guess after a short time you'll have your own ideas how to stand out in a crowd and get the girls, the promotion you deserve (because, if you read my blog you already are awesome all the time) and reach all your goals.
Stay awesome...in a creative way!
Yours,
Broda
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
The awesomness of wingmen!
Hello bros,
this time we're going to talk about a common tool in being successful....the wingman (wingwomen are fine too).
Of course you can be totally awesome without ever use a wingman, but there are three good reasons for using one:
it makes things much...
A wingman is a person who helps you to reach your goals by assisting you or who plays different roles to place you in the right light.
In fact it's like a personal marketing assistant.
You can take advantage of wingmen in almost every situation...and that's what many people do, e.g. good cop-bad cop; pilots in war; salesmen who use the manager close (to put some more pressure on the client); bros who wanna get laid (my favourite one ;-); applicants (with their reference people) to convince future employers.
Let's take a closer look on my favourite one....
We used it almost every party we went to back in my years at the university...that was fun ;-))
You can decide who hard you wanna involve your wingman in the process.
This short scene frome HIMYM illustrates how to break the ice with the help of a wingman:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYbqLEwdXv8
Another possible way is to involve him by supporting your stories (or let him tell stories about you)...no matter if they are true or just crazy stuff/lies (at this you need a very spontaneously one or you have to arrange a story before you go to a bar...otherwise it could lead to bad surprises ;-)
Sometimes you need a wingman or better a wingwoman to get rid of your conquest (she should come to your apartment in the morning pretending she's your fiancé).
So as you probably could recognize trying to use a wingman could be fun and lead to sex...this point should convince you even if it were the only one ;-)
It also could help you with problem solving, getting promoted, feeling better or just to have a bit more fun.
Next time when you go out with friends (or do sth. else like dealing with clients) use them as your wingmen...but never forget to return the favor...this will make things so much easier and faster.
btw sometimes you can work with distance wingmen by mobile (or with imaginery ones if you wanne get out of a situation)
Stay awesome...wingman-style!
Yours,
Broda
this time we're going to talk about a common tool in being successful....the wingman (wingwomen are fine too).
Of course you can be totally awesome without ever use a wingman, but there are three good reasons for using one:
it makes things much...
- easier
- faster
- and last but not least...funnier (you can share stories with your friends)
A wingman is a person who helps you to reach your goals by assisting you or who plays different roles to place you in the right light.
In fact it's like a personal marketing assistant.
You can take advantage of wingmen in almost every situation...and that's what many people do, e.g. good cop-bad cop; pilots in war; salesmen who use the manager close (to put some more pressure on the client); bros who wanna get laid (my favourite one ;-); applicants (with their reference people) to convince future employers.
Let's take a closer look on my favourite one....
We used it almost every party we went to back in my years at the university...that was fun ;-))
You can decide who hard you wanna involve your wingman in the process.
This short scene frome HIMYM illustrates how to break the ice with the help of a wingman:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYbqLEwdXv8
Another possible way is to involve him by supporting your stories (or let him tell stories about you)...no matter if they are true or just crazy stuff/lies (at this you need a very spontaneously one or you have to arrange a story before you go to a bar...otherwise it could lead to bad surprises ;-)
Sometimes you need a wingman or better a wingwoman to get rid of your conquest (she should come to your apartment in the morning pretending she's your fiancé).
So as you probably could recognize trying to use a wingman could be fun and lead to sex...this point should convince you even if it were the only one ;-)
It also could help you with problem solving, getting promoted, feeling better or just to have a bit more fun.
Next time when you go out with friends (or do sth. else like dealing with clients) use them as your wingmen...but never forget to return the favor...this will make things so much easier and faster.
btw sometimes you can work with distance wingmen by mobile (or with imaginery ones if you wanne get out of a situation)
Stay awesome...wingman-style!
Yours,
Broda
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Most awesome stuff happens beyond the comfort zone!!
Hello bros,
you all might have heard from the "comfort zone"...if not here is a formal definition:
The comfort zone is a behavioural state within which a person operates in an anxiety-neutral condition, using a limited set of behaviours to deliver a steady level of performance, usually without a sense of risk (Alasdair A. K. White "From Comfort Zone to Performance Management")
In this zone many of us act most of their time but in this zone nothing special or fantastic ever happens. It's like living in a grey part of the world like a zombie without the thrill of taking any risk.
And risk is the word what it's all about. Being afraid of taking risks limits our options...you'll never ever go home with an unknown chick and have the world-changing, mind-blowing one-night-stand-crazy-mega-sex of which you dream every single night in bed.
Without taking risks you'll spend a boring life and nothing mentionable ever happens in your life.
If you wanna be the mayor of the city of awesome you have to pass the red line an go far beyond of your convinient microcosmos. You have to dare what you always dreamed about doing but never did before.
Go out and just do it! If you aren't sure about anything think about the worst that could happen...is it really that worse? Or will it be forgotten 1 min. later? Or maybe a week later?
Then think about would could happen if everything works out as you imagine....think twice....oh yeah this would be awesome...I like it!!!
Any human being who was/is or will be successful/awesome/satisfied with his life went/goes or will go beyond his comfort zone on a regular base to experience awesome true stories which he definitely won't forgot his entire life.
Think of all the people you admire (no matter if this are actors, politiciens, leaders, cops, thiefs, your mother...)...did they always live in their convinient small comfort zone??? I bet the answer is no!!
So if you want your life to rock and be awesome instead of being Mr. Boring himself you too have to leave this zone as often as you could....because the really awesome stuff happens beyond the line....
Stay awesome!
Yours,
Broda
you all might have heard from the "comfort zone"...if not here is a formal definition:
The comfort zone is a behavioural state within which a person operates in an anxiety-neutral condition, using a limited set of behaviours to deliver a steady level of performance, usually without a sense of risk (Alasdair A. K. White "From Comfort Zone to Performance Management")
In this zone many of us act most of their time but in this zone nothing special or fantastic ever happens. It's like living in a grey part of the world like a zombie without the thrill of taking any risk.
And risk is the word what it's all about. Being afraid of taking risks limits our options...you'll never ever go home with an unknown chick and have the world-changing, mind-blowing one-night-stand-crazy-mega-sex of which you dream every single night in bed.
Without taking risks you'll spend a boring life and nothing mentionable ever happens in your life.
If you wanna be the mayor of the city of awesome you have to pass the red line an go far beyond of your convinient microcosmos. You have to dare what you always dreamed about doing but never did before.
Go out and just do it! If you aren't sure about anything think about the worst that could happen...is it really that worse? Or will it be forgotten 1 min. later? Or maybe a week later?
Then think about would could happen if everything works out as you imagine....think twice....oh yeah this would be awesome...I like it!!!
Any human being who was/is or will be successful/awesome/satisfied with his life went/goes or will go beyond his comfort zone on a regular base to experience awesome true stories which he definitely won't forgot his entire life.
Think of all the people you admire (no matter if this are actors, politiciens, leaders, cops, thiefs, your mother...)...did they always live in their convinient small comfort zone??? I bet the answer is no!!
So if you want your life to rock and be awesome instead of being Mr. Boring himself you too have to leave this zone as often as you could....because the really awesome stuff happens beyond the line....
Stay awesome!
Yours,
Broda
Short Note: Why is being awesome so....AWESOME?
Hey bros,
there are many reasons why it's awesome to be awesome.
Here are some suggestions which might help you to see why you totally should be awesome.
there are many reasons why it's awesome to be awesome.
Here are some suggestions which might help you to see why you totally should be awesome.
- sex (even if you're in a relationship)
- money (guess why you need it...)
- power (be cooler than Superman...)
- satisfaction (in all life parts...this one is great!)
- more sex (even greater...;-)
- suits (I like them personally ;-)
- self-confidence (you're the one...greatest of all time!)
- friends (you'll have more and closer ones...because it'll be fun hanging around with you)
- fans (all the people who like being around you)
- success (on the job, in bed, in the bar, in sports, in...let me think....every thing you do while you're breathing [or not breathing, e.g. if you dive...])
Plus your life is going to rock....
So, I hope everyone of you took out his favourite reasons....keep them in mind...burn them on your brain so that you never forget them during your entire lifetime.
Now you already know what being awesome means to you, why you shold be awesome, that you shold be awesome all the time and to what good stuff it leads to be awesome.
This is the basic knowledge. Next time we go further into the universe of being the man you, by now, should want to be.
Stay awesome!
Yours,
Broda
Monday, September 14, 2009
Try to be awesome all the time!
Hello bros,
today we're going deeper in the universe of awesomness.
Once there was this wise man who told me "whenever I start feeling sad, I just stop being sad and be awesome instead." (btw: the same rule is adaptable for every negative feeling)
Ok...some of you might got me...I had stolen this quotation from my man Barney Stinson (the awesomst guy of the sit-com "How I met your mother").
Anyway who cares where this is from...the fact is that it's totally true and it'll be FOREVER, so, whatever you do or don't do, always keep this quotation in mind...it helped me a lot when I was starting to feel bad because of anything.
So remember...it all comes down to how you decide you wanna live your life!
In fact, if you always think about being awesome instead of sad/mad/dead than you got the first and most important ground rule.
Next times we'll start to go into details...
Stay awesome!
Yours,
Broda
P.S.: Watching HIMYM is fun and you shold take a look at how Barney is to improve yourself.
today we're going deeper in the universe of awesomness.
Once there was this wise man who told me "whenever I start feeling sad, I just stop being sad and be awesome instead." (btw: the same rule is adaptable for every negative feeling)
Ok...some of you might got me...I had stolen this quotation from my man Barney Stinson (the awesomst guy of the sit-com "How I met your mother").
Anyway who cares where this is from...the fact is that it's totally true and it'll be FOREVER, so, whatever you do or don't do, always keep this quotation in mind...it helped me a lot when I was starting to feel bad because of anything.
So remember...it all comes down to how you decide you wanna live your life!
In fact, if you always think about being awesome instead of sad/mad/dead than you got the first and most important ground rule.
Next times we'll start to go into details...
Stay awesome!
Yours,
Broda
P.S.: Watching HIMYM is fun and you shold take a look at how Barney is to improve yourself.
Sunday, September 13, 2009
Start of the awesomest blog ever!!
Hi everybody who's interested in the art of being awesome!
Know what, there are thousends of people who think they are awesome, but for real, most of them aren't!
But guess what....you could belong to the few who are really awesome and adorable.
First of all you need to think about how you define awesomness for yourself.
Do you feel admirable when you had a damn hot night with the hottest chick in the bar where you've spend your last night....or if it was the hottest in town....or, if you're in a relationship, because you cooked the best dinner in your life....or whatever.
Next question you've to answer by yourself is who should look up to you and say: "He's my role model". Maybe some of you think about their parents, some of their frinds and some think that every human being should know that they're the kings of the country of awesomeness.
So, this should be enough to think about for tonight!
Stay awesome!
Yours,
Broda
P.S.: I will come up with this blog every 1-3 days to tell you more about being awesome for real!
Know what, there are thousends of people who think they are awesome, but for real, most of them aren't!
But guess what....you could belong to the few who are really awesome and adorable.
First of all you need to think about how you define awesomness for yourself.
Do you feel admirable when you had a damn hot night with the hottest chick in the bar where you've spend your last night....or if it was the hottest in town....or, if you're in a relationship, because you cooked the best dinner in your life....or whatever.
Next question you've to answer by yourself is who should look up to you and say: "He's my role model". Maybe some of you think about their parents, some of their frinds and some think that every human being should know that they're the kings of the country of awesomeness.
So, this should be enough to think about for tonight!
Stay awesome!
Yours,
Broda
P.S.: I will come up with this blog every 1-3 days to tell you more about being awesome for real!
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